Our Goldendoodle| Puppy’s First Day Home

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Welcome to my first puppy blog! Five weeks ago today we brought home our 8 week old ‘medium’ goldendoodle, Henry. His expected weight as an adult is between 40 and 50 pounds. Before bringing Henry home I did months of research on puppies. I wanted to make sure I knew as much as possible. I grew-up with a shih-tzu and now my parents have a havenese. My parents used potty pads with both dogs and they were difficult to house train.

I researched different breeds, breeders and also considered adoption. However, most of my research was focused on crate and house training. I knew I wouldn’t be able to handle long-term puppy accidents, so I was determined to train him well! I am not a dog expert and have no education as a dog trainer, but I thought it would be helpful to share what has worked well for us. Here are a few tips that made Henry’s first night home a successful one.

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Tip #1

Setup your puppy’s area and puppy-proof your home before you pup comes home.

In our home we created a designated puppy room. It’s a room that is fairly easy to puppy-proof and has a door to outside that would always be in his sight to help with house training. We setup Henry’s crate in this room with his toys and added baby gate to keep that room closed off from the rest of the house. For about his first two weeks home he rarely left this room. Remember, giving your puppy too much space puts him further away from his “potty place,” which increases the likelihood he has an accident where he’s not supposed to. He has a tiny, weak bladder and is easily confused in his new home. You can create a puppy room or space anywhere in your home, I think it just helps to do-so close by to an exterior door.

Tip #2

When you arrive home, take your puppy directly to his “potty place,” before brining him inside.

Henry’s “potty place” is right outside the puppy room, so he hasn’t been more than 5 feet outside of our home. It is key that this area is very close to the puppy room. From day one, we’ve taken him outside on a leash to do his business. Fortunately, he went potty right away on that first day. We gave him lots of verbal praise then took him inside. I believe his first memory {do dogs have memories like this?} of his new home is where he goes potty.

At the guidance of his breeder, we chose to not use “potty pads” to house train Henry. Each time he comes inside we wipe his paws with a wipe because he does not have all of his vaccine boosters. We’ve gone through a lot of wipes! I know there are some risks taking a new puppy outside before he’s fully vaccinated. I have spoke with a few veterinarians on this topic and suggest everyone do the same. Taking Henry outside to go potty was the right choice for us. We are very lucky that Henry picked up on house training pretty easily and didn’t have many accidents {more that in this blog}.

Tip #3

Make his crate inviting and don’t force him in.

When Henry entered his room his crate was setup with the door open. Inside we had a crate pad and the towel he sat on in the car during his ride home. I was a bit nervous about the crate situation because neither of my family dogs took a liking to their crate. We let him explore his new room for a bit and before we knew it, he walked into his crate on his own to lay down. From that moment on, he loved his crate! I originally planned to move his crate into our bedroom next to my side of the bed. I read that this closeness helps the puppy to adjust during their scary first days/weeks in their new home. Since Henry easily went in and out of his crate on his first day home we decided not to move his crate.

A puppy’s crate is supposed to be his safe place and his natural instincts should prevent them from having accidents in it. I totally understand that this is not the case for every pup! When we took Henry home he was about 9lbs and he started with a 24 inch crate. As most sites suggest, he had enough room to turn around, but not enough room to play. Too much extra space in the crate may cause puppies to go potty on one side and sleep on the other. The crate should only be big enough for relaxing – not relaxing AND potty.

Tip #4

Stick to a schedule. Day and night.

We brought Henry home on a Sunday afternoon and I was able to stay home the following two days. Starting on the first night we set alarms to wake up every two hours to take Henry outside. I know that some sites suggest not waking your puppy up, but this is the method that we chose and it worked very well for Henry. We chose this method because we wanted him to understand that night time is for sleeping and going potty – not playing. By waking him up we felt were inconveniencing him, not the other way around. For the most part, he was always sleeping when we took him out until he woke up for good around 5am.

We followed the 2 hour approach for about five days then increased to 3 hours. After about another five days we increased to 4 hours. Within three weeks, Henry was sleeping through the night {and so were we} with no accidents. He has never had an accident in his crate and can hold it for 8-9 hours at night. Henry eventually started sleeping later util about 6 and 6:45am.

For the first two weeks, we also wrote down every time Henry ate, drank and went potty. This sounds crazy {and like we had a human baby} but it really helped us understand how long he could hold it. During the first two days, we peed 14 times before dinner. We constantly took him outside – whether we thought he had to go or not – to reinforce his “potty place.”

Tip #5

Be patient.

Patience is not my strongest venture. My husband on the other hand, has the patience of a saint. Brining home a puppy is without a doubt stressful and exhausting. The first few weeks are especially tough, but hang in there! I promise it gets better. Your little guy was taken from his mama and siblings then placed in whole new world. It is going to take some time for him to learn, but he will learn. During the first two weeks Henry went nuts for food and water. I couldn’t imagine that he’d ever sit still or not jump for the food. Here we are 5 weeks out and he plops his little butt down when we bring his food over. Don’t lose hope! The calmer you are, the calmer he will be too. Our next goal is to tackle puppy biting – check back soon!


14 thoughts on “Our Goldendoodle| Puppy’s First Day Home

  1. Thanks for the tips! Our GD is do to be born July 16th so I’m reading as much as I can about training’


  2. My medium Goldendoddle Puppy is now 10 weeks old. Crate training is going well & she is sleeping through the night. I noticed your plans to address the biting issue- this is a constant with our puppy- she even is biting on the bricks of our fireplace- the pig hooves have been the best diversion- very strong (tip from our breeder) the darker hooves give puppies less ‘bad breath’ than the lighter hooves. She suggested putting a teaspoon of pumpkin purée in the hoove- our puppy loves this & it’s a great biting diversion! Hope this helps…


    • Hi Lynn! Sorry I missed your comment. We actually didn’t have too many issues with our pup chewing furniture. He developed a habit of using his mouth to get our attention, show affection and sometimes frustration. He’s made some progress in this department, but we’re working with a trainer now.


      • Glad things are going well…I too am starting on training classes, as my Goldendoodle Winnie, is now 6 months old & taking me for a ‘merry ride’ when walking on a leash. Our Winnie also tends to use her mouth & for attention & also in opposition she will snap her teeth together…sometimes on us! 😂. Diverting with a toy or her hooves does help! Still so in love with her…can’t imagine life without her!


  3. Thank you so much for ur help with potty training. Can’t wait to hear what u have to say about the puppy biting. Our doodle loves to bite just being playful but it really hurts. Need some hints on how to stop her. Thank you!


    • I am so happy my tips are helpful! Henry has been excellent with house training. He can hold it forever now, it’s amazing. Biting has been tough and we’re seeing a trainer. I would seeking help from an experienced trainer sooner rather than later.


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